Kevin Kline says the secret to his 35-year marriage to Phoebe Cates is not having a ‘Hollywood marriage’

Kline met Cates during auditions for the 1983 film “The Big Chill,” soon after he’d made the leap from stage to screen with his film debut in “Sophie’s Choice.” The two began dating in 1985, and married in 1989 — the same year Kline won an Oscar for “A Fish Called Wanda.”

Cates, for her part, became famous for her roles in iconic 1980s comedies like “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” and “Gremlins.” She retired from film acting in the 1990s (save an appearance in “The Anniversary Party,” a 2001 film written and directed by her best friend and former “Fast Times” costar Jennifer Jason Leigh) and now runs Blue Tree, an Upper East Side boutique she opened in 2005.

Cates and Kline share two children: son Owen, born in 1991, and daughter Greta, born in 1994.